Her divorce recovery classes helped her realize everyone bounces back at their own pace.

Psychotherapist Pandora Mac Lean-Hoover, who's divorced, also suggests finding a therapist who knows firsthand how vulnerable you are.

"I'm a strong person, I own my own business and I'm a professional speaker," she says.

But she admits she could barely function for a full year after the split.

Find yourself in a great long term relationship with a Korean woman and you can bet that she’ll be all about making you feel great.

It may take a long time to recover—and that's okay.

Julie, 50, from Denver, thought she'd be able to handle her divorce.

So, to avoid even the slightest bit of oppression, it is absolutely necessary to learn and recognize every last trick in existence.

As long as you realize that she is doing that then you will always hold the upper hand.